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When Christians Quarrel: Resolving Conflict in the Church
Matthew 18:15-20
One of the things I like best about the New Testament is that it is so practical. It must have been the fact that Jesus had human beings called disciples always with him that forced him to speak in such everyday terms about everyday problems. Sometimes Christians disagree in the congregation of believers. Sometimes they quarrel. Sometimes they hold grudges against each other. The Scripture for today says that we must never tolerate any situation in which there is a breach of personal relationship between us and another member of the Christian community.
In this eighteenth chapter of Matthew Jesus admits that disciples are going to have conflicts; but they are to resolve them.
It is very true today that the behavior of us church members on this very issue makes Christianity to the outside world either repulsive or attractive.
It isn’t a matter that Christians are perfect and will not have conflicts. There will always be quarrels, differences of opinion on how and who, disappointments with preachers and councils, hurt feelings, bent pride, loss of face, and lots of mistakes. It’s the idea that Christians can resolve these conflicts as no other fellowship can, that Jesus puts before us today.
Comus, a Duke of Florence, had a saying that indicated the limitations of his religion: "You shall read that we are commanded to forgive our enemies, but you never read that we are commanded to forgive our friends."
That can happen in the Christian proclamation of the gospel. We spend a lot of time in our pulpits talking about how Christians are admonished by Jesus Christ to love their enemies and to pray for their enemies. When in actuality, right there in the pew side by side are Christians who hold grudges, hang on to petty hurts, refuse to forgive and love each other within the fellowship. And when they do this, church and Christianity and the whole practice of religion for them is not the joyful experience it ought to be. They miss a large dimension of belonging to God’s family.
This particular portion of Matthew (18:15-18) gives us a whole scheme of action for the mending of broken relationships within our "family of God" called the Christian fellowship...
- Put Your Complaint into Words
- Tell the Person about It in Person
- Counsel with Other Wise Christians.
- Make Use of the Christian Fellowship.
- Never Give up Trying.
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Wake Well, Wake Welcome by Leonard Sweet
Romans 13:8-14
Anyone here this morning NOT ever had the experience of “getting up on the wrong side of the bed”? So, we have no superior beings here this morning. Good, I can feel right at home.
But there is something even worse than “getting up on the wrong side of the bed.” It’s eating breakfast across from someone who “got up on the wrong side of the bed.” Nothing starts the day off on a more sour note than a crabby crash encounter with a wrong-side-of-bed person while you are both still in your pajamas.

These days the overwhelming scapegoat for our a.m. bad behavior is “sleep deprivation.” All the talk shows and on-line docs decry the blood-shot, bleary-eyed, sleep-deprived state of our Union.
But are we really sleep deprived? Or are we just waking badly?
Before the comforts of electricity, central heat and/or air conditioning, sleeping “through the night” was unheard of. Think back to the last winter (or storm) power outage your home experienced. If you didn’t want to freeze to death, and not knowing when the power might get back on, and for those lucky enough to have a fireplace, night-time became a feed the flames marathon.
How do you keep the bare minimum of heat coming from the average fireplace? And this is with the family bundled in sleeping bags and parked right in front of it. It takes two or three good-sized chunks of wood every hour or so to keep the embers hot. When the cold dawn finally breaks after one of those nights, THEN you know about sleep deprivation.
Or let’s go back a century more . . . when houses were smaller, the number of young children typically large, and the continual needs of livestock on a farm more demanding than anything we can comprehend. Live like our ancestors and the myth of a good night’s sleep seems even more distant. Half of Indiana still refuses to go on the government-standard “daylight savings time” because milk cows just “don’t get it.” Farmers know that Washington D.C. can say “spring forward” all they want. But Bossy still needs to be milked at 5 a.m.— HER 5 a.m., or everyone will “fall backward.”
Ask farmers. Ask big families with small children. Ask central-heating challenged households. All have never known about some magic “eight hours” of sleep.
In fact, earlier cultures embraced the night, accepting that while it might be a time of different activities, or even of “rest,” it was not necessarily a time for sustained sleep. In fact, our ancestors most often lived out of a tradition of “two sleeps.”
Every 24 hours used to be divided into a day of “work” and a night of “two sleeps.” When the sun set and the warmth left the air, it was time for the “early sleep.” But the demands of keeping a warm house, tending to children, or just keeping an attentive ear out for intruders, necessarily meant this “early sleep” might be brief. After waking from a couple hours of “first sleep,” this gap of time in the midst of the night was a traditional moment for personal prayer and meditation, tending the fire, reading by candlelight (for those wealthy enough to afford candles) and quiet contemplation. This “personal time” in the middle of the night brought meaning and purpose to a life crowded with noise and people and duties.
But then it was time for “second sleep,” the second shift of sleep that hopefully took the sleeper to just before dawn.
The question upon rising for our ancestors, then, was not “How did you sleep?” but “Did you wake well?” And which “waking” was better, our first waking or your second waking?
“Waking well,” whether in the darkness of the night or at the break of day, is something too many of us have forgotten how to do.
In today’s Romans text Paul calls on all Christians to “wake up.” Paul wants all disciples of Jesus to be excited about waking up to the new life they have received through grace. We should wake with excited expectation, Paul says, for with every new waking, “salvation” is “nearer now” than when we first signed up to follow Christ (v.11). Paul didn’t pretend to know the divine time-line, but he trusted God’s design for the salvation of all creation. And he anticipated the day he would wake to a new day where the “armor of light” clothing Christ’s followers would clothe all creation...
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